Dating an emotionally damaged girl
The failures of their unsuccessful partnerships are always based on the faults of their exes.
They lack the maturity to take responsibility for their mistakes in their past relationships.
(Only they can change themselves.) People can be for both healthy and unhealthy reasons.
Have you ever met someone who "romantically" knocked you off your feet -- as in "Hi Mom and Dad...
you're not going to believe this, but I just met the man of my dreams! How did they miss the obvious warning signs before they became intimate and gave their heart away? " or "He wants the same thing I want: to settle down and have children.") For those of us who've been in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable person, we know the pain of not being able to get close to the person we love.
They are inflexible and loathe having to compromise.
They seem to be available only when convenient for them.